Party and Play Rules

Hi!  To ensure everyone knows what they are getting into, here are the party and play rules for our events. We will review these with all guests as they arrive.

If you have any questions or concerns about these rules, please contact us (form below).  If you cannot abide by these rules and wish your ticket to be refunded, please contact us as well.


You must arrive with your PAL(s).  If you do not, you will not be admitted; there is no waiting space inside the event.  Please coordinate your schedules.

You must be in costume, or in fetish/fancy/formal attire of some type.  If you are in street clothes, T-shirts & jeans & sneakers, or other ordinary everyday attire, you will not be admitted.  Please dress up somehow, we would hate to turn anyone away!


Welcome to Kinky Salon!

Here is what we want you to know, to help you and all of us have the best possible time tonight.

Consent: We want you to feel comfortable, adventurous, and protected in this safe space. Consent makes that possible, and consent is critical to us.

While you are here, ask before touching. If you are asked and aren’t interested, a polite “No Thank You” is sufficient. If you hear “No Thank You”, be gracious and respect it.

Monitors: If you see or experience a violation of consent, alert one of our monitors wearing the orange armbands (point to sample).

They’re also available for any other questions or assistance you might need.

Alcohol, smoking, drugs: No illegal substances are allowed here; you and your PALs will be asked to leave immediately. All bottles must be checked in to our “bar”, and you can check them out for beverages. We provide only non-alcoholic refreshments & snacks to all guests. Smoking must be outside only; there is no indoors smoking area.  (Sorry it’s so cold out 🙂

Play rules: Our play rules are posted above the play spaces, and we have examples at the door.  If you have any questions, please ask a monitor. Monitors are identifiable by their lighted badges.

PAL: Thanks for bringing your PAL(s)!  You are responsible for your PAL(s), and your PAL(s) are responsible for you.

If any of you are causing a disruption and you can’t work it out with our help, you may all be asked to leave.

Acceptance: Everyone is accepted at this party, regardless of gender, age, appearance, or preferences. Be kind! Engage with respect! Ask!

If you experience unkindness from any guest, please let one of our monitors know right away, and we will address the issue promptly.

No Phones/No Photos: No cell phones or personal cameras are allowed anywhere inside this event. If you need to make a call, take it outside. No exceptions.

Library: Our lending library has toys you can sign out & play with, information on various important topics, and librarians who are happy to provide advice. They may also consent to demonstrations. Ask ;>)

Supplies: Safer sex supplies are provided free. While we do not enforce any specific safer sex practices, we would hate for them to go to waste! We encourage safer sex practices and good boundaries.

Clean up: This is a shared space and we’d love to keep it playable. Place a towel under bare bottoms. Clean up after playing, replace the linens, and wipe down surfaces..

Locations: Coat check is to the right of the door. Bathrooms are at the far end of the main room, adjoining the stage. Dance space is through the hall by the bar.  Play space is at the mattresses or… wherever else you like!

Thank you for coming to Kinky Salon. Now go have fun!


Please respect that there are many newcomers here and our monitors are very busy — we request no high-intensity pain, edgy roleplay, or breath play.

Please respect the play space by keeping it tidy for the next people — we request no blood, pee, scat, fire, or wax play.

We encourage towel use for all players.


If you have any concerns or questions about these rules, or if you cannot abide by them and wish your ticket refunded, please contact us:

Thanks, and we can’t wait to party with you!